So, people in different places have mentioned starting a crowdfunding thing to help with my glasses. Which, I hadn't initially considered but well, I decided to do the thing. If I wasn't trying to both move and get glasses, I might not have done it, but here we are.
Here it isn( the text from the GFM )Anything, including sharing the link, would be amazing. And, honestly, just being able to have this space to flail about all this has been really helpful, so thank you all for reading and commenting. It's meant a lot.